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40 Thoughts, From 40 Years!

Writer's picture: Matthew CossensMatthew Cossens


Today, as I turn 40 I've had the chance to reflect on lessons I've learnt over the journey thus far.


Here are my 40 thoughts from the 40 years I've had on this planet.

  1. You are your word

  2. Be grateful for all your blessings

  3. Love without conditions

  4. Grow, everyday. Never stop learning

  5. What you think is who you become so guard your thoughts

  6. Always be humble, we stand on the shoulders of those who came before us

  7. There is power in prayer/meditation

  8. Walk your own path. You are the author of your story

  9. Have an orientation towards action. Get moving, get stuff done

  10. Become a person of character

  11. Life is abundant, share your knowledge, your wisdom, time and talents with everyone.

  12. Make it a habit to do nice things for people

  13. Friendship is the best foundation for an amazing marriage (I thank God that I've married my best friend)

  14. Constantly get uncomfortable, you'll grow and life is more exciting

  15. Don't just work hard, be a hard worker in all that you do

  16. Buy multiple copies of great books, share them with others

  17. Beware of the person who has nothing to lose

  18. Walk towards fear, be brave and watch it disappear before your eyes

  19. Celebrate success with those you love.

  20. You can achieve great things with commitment, consistency, hustle and grind

  21. Don't worry about other people's opinions, just be the best version of you

  22. You are the sum of all your habits. Change these and you can change your life

  23. If threatened physically, hit first, hit hard!

  24. Beware of friends who cannot be happy for you when you succeed. Their silence speaks volumes

  25. There is no happiness, happiness is the way - Thich Nhat Hanh

  26. Don't burn bridges, you never know how many times you'll have to cross the same river

  27. Look after the world and the world will look after you (Thanks Henry for this one!)

  28. Choose a life partner who makes you want to be a better person, has high expectations, challenges you directly and loves you unconditionally

  29. Give generously without expecting in return

  30. Love is more than a feeling, it's a conscious choice. Choose each day to love

  31. The people you share your life with make life worth living

  32. Choose an inner circle that will be there for you in all circumstances but will call you out when you need it

  33. Chase after mastery in areas that matter to you

  34. He who serves the most wins

  35. Learn to receive from others

  36. Get up early, there is something special to be found there

  37. Surround yourself with people who make you grow. Layer in those around you that are steps ahead on the journey you wish to take.

  38. Have candour but never without care. Balance your candour based on how much the other person knows you care for them

  39. Be thankful for all the people who impact your life, both big and small

  40. Remember all things are possible with God.

What stood out to you from the above list? Share this or your life lessons below.

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